Godly Behavior - Part 1

For physical training is of some value, but godliness has value for all things, holding promise for both the present life and the life to come.   1 Tim 4:8
 
In our Family Matters devotional series, we seek to emphasize the importance of our physical health on the second week of each month – in keeping with the pattern set out in Luke 2:52 that we would grow in wisdom, stature, and in favor with God and others. The verse above affirms the value of our training our bodies, as any athlete would. Then Paul emphasizes the greater value of spiritual health, namely that godliness holds value in every area of life. 
 
What are the signs that our children are growing in godliness? Paul states them clearly a bit later in this same letter to Timothy. “Set an example for the believers in speech, in life, in love, in faith, and in purity.” Let’s consider each of these.
 
1.      In speech – Paul knows that whatever resides in our hearts will be revealed in our words. Listen to your children. What do they talk about most often, and with the greatest passion? This window into their lives can foreshadow the “idols” that will compete for their allegiance to Christ.   Ask questions that get them talking about their perspective on Christian issues – it can be quite revealing!
2.      In life – Setting an example means living a life that is worthy of imitation. Does your son or daughter seek to imitate the world in which we live, or set an example of kindness, generosity and compassion? 
3.      In love – Relationships, especially in the youth culture, may be the most clear indicator of godliness. Watch for signs that your son or daughter looks toward a boyfriend or girlfriend as a primary source of identity or security. If so, continue to affirm the love and approval they have in Christ and from you.
4.      In faith – Expressions of Christianity can be deceiving; even church-going kids get into loads of trouble. However, being involved in activities that promote faith such as a church youth group or connecting with camp friends can provide a spiritual strength that our teens need to thrive. 
5.      In purity – This dimension includes their commitment to purity in relationships, but goes far beyond as well. Purity speaks to television, internet use, and video gaming as well. Set the boundaries in your home, and set an adult example by following them. Our kids will most respect boundaries that we are also willing to follow.