Suicidal Thoughts - Part 1

"Why, my soul, are you downcast? Why so disturbed within me? Put your hope in God, for I will yet praise him, my Savior and my God." Psalm 42:5
Today we’re going to address the topic of teenage suicide. While we pray this never becomes an issue in your home, we want to acknowledge that for too many families, this issue comes up far too late. 
 
What contributes to a child committing suicide? Experts say that personal and family history, conflicts at home, personality disorders, illnesses and past abuse all play a part. Combined with the normal issues of hormonal instability, identity struggles, and emotional immaturity, these factors can swirl together toward catastrophe. 
 
Is suicide a real risk? Considering the fact that suicide is the third leading cause of death among teenagers (behind homicide and auto accidents), parents should at least be aware of the warning signs. Here is what you should look for:
 

1. Acting outside of normal behavior – Not all depressed kids commit suicide, but most suicidal kids are depressed. They have given up on life and that often surfaces in the form of abnormal behavior. Dropping out of sports or a club, or acting withdrawn from friends can show up as early warning signs of emotional detachment that comes from being depressed. 
2.  Talking about death and dying – Comments like, “You’d be better off without me,” are signals that a child is thinking about how life would be different for others if he or she wasn’t around. Even joking about taking his or her life should be taken seriously. 
3. Giving away special possessions – Many teens will get their affairs in order before harming themselves. Offering special gifts to friends is a way of saying, “thank you,” to the people they value. Though some kids are simply generous, watch out for signs that your child is giving away his or her most special items. 

 
What can you do if you see these warning signs? Remember that every teen acts abnormal at times, but if you see a combination of these signs it is time to act. According to Jim Daley at Focus on the Family, the best remedy is for Mom and Dad to talk about it with their child.   Parents are naturally afraid to bring up the topic of suicide, concerned that it will put the idea into their child’s head. However, frank discussion about suicide has proven to be one of the most effective steps toward preventing it. 
 
Then seek professional help. Counselors and pastors understand the steps you should take toward addressing the root issues your child may be facing.
 

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Camper Corner 
Some kids think life has become so bad that they should bring it to an end. Can you think of some issues that would cause a kid to think that way? Who should he or she talk to if those thoughts come to mind?