Relationships with the Opposite Sex - Part 2

 Relationships with the opposite sex start at home!
 
God always has a plan and a purpose. Starting back in the Garden of Eden, God gave Adam responsibilities and empowerment to tend to His creation. Imagine the day that Adam was busy naming the animals, " … elephant, giraffe, hippo, aardvark, porcupine …" then all of a sudden some-thing, some-one he had never seen before walks up.  With his right hand Adam hits his forehead while bracing himself with his left. Adam stutters, mutters, then shouts, "WOW-man," which became shortened to “woman.”   Ladies, we all agree that you add the “WO” to man, and thank you very much!
 
Young men and boys totally learn from example. They learned truck sounds from trucks and grunts from their fathers, so the way dad treats mom is HUGE. Your boy is learning from you!  Dad, do you adore her, respect her, cherish her with your words and actions? How you respond to mom (and your daughters) will determine the future actions and reactions of your young men. Find friends to hold you accountable concerning your eyes, mind, mouth and attitude toward women – don’t settle for worldly standards. 
 
Back to my central point: God has a purpose and design. Differences of men and women are not designed to divide or separate but to be complementary.  Together they reflect the image and glory of God. Let your boys know that when we as men step out of His design we feel inadequate in relationships. So often we move into competition, proficiency in our work, sports, and hobbies to define our worth. God has designed men to be fully male and fully alive. He has equipped us for impact. God created men with strength to protect, as well as boldness and courage to be fearless and heroic family leaders.
 
Our sons must know not to take hold of a woman too strongly or rule her by fear and intimidation. Teach them to look ladies in the eyes; complement their character, service, and quality of countenance. Dad, lead your son physically, emotionally, mentally and spiritually. When they encounter fear in the face of temptations – may your Godly example redirect their energies to His Divine master design. May your son not run and hide as Adam did in the garden.
 
Gentlemen, it's a high calling.  Together let's take the Psalm 101:2-4 challenge.
 
Your brother and friend,
Johnny Polk

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Guy Camper Corner
Stop look and listen to your mother. Respect her.  Be considerate and show interest in her. Show her gratitude with your face, words, actions and attitude. 
 
In dating keep things simple. The way you respect and treat her will strengthen or destroy your relationship. Be above reproach and DO NOT COMPROMISE... girls think all guys have a selling point. Through your wise choices show her your strength, discipline, and courage that can only come from above. You’ll never regret it and she’ll treasure it forever. Pursue and embrace God’s design for being fully male.